Stress

There are times where we test one another’s patience and others where there are too many things that we need to balance that it seems overwhelming and daunting. Stress is a part of everyone’s life; the level and length vary in different circumstances though all share the equal irritation and frustration that comes with unexpected events. Prepare beforehand a plan, though minor it may be, in preparation for some stressful situations that arise, so as not to become overwhelmed when the harder trials come or the life altering decisions knock us down, and be patient since acting in haste over certain decisions will surely bring about more regret than joy. 

Transitionaiing

Many like I said before about getting married in haste, also ties in with transitioning into marriage. They say the best gifts are the ones that are slowly unwrapped and carefully treated. Likewise in transitioning, it will be a shock, since it is a complete life style change. So take it easy, unwrap your new life together carefully and see how amazing your relationship and family life will become, though it won’t be easy yet it will be rewarding. 

Getting Married

When preparing for getting Married we need to take the time to learn of the person that you desire to marry, there are many times where couples who think that they are in love jump to get married to realize or soon after loose the interest. It is easy to forget to say I love you or to have a romantic gesture if you think that it is required and not needed to be said.

say I love you

It’s tricky in intimacy with our spouse we sometimes determine that what was once said does not need be repeated, saying I love you out loud reaffirms the feelings that we have inside. I think the Lord knew and understands the human need for verbal confirmation; it simply is not enough to gesture or say only once that we are thankful or love someone but that the act is repeated for us to be reminded of those earlier times and hint towards future progression. Like in the scriptures or in teaching young children we often receive the same message, teaching repeatedly, not that we don’t know but for our betterment, and remembrance. Likewise show those around you, tell your siblings even, that you love them and often.It’s tricky in intimacy with our spouse we sometimes determine that what was once said does not need be repeated, saying I love you out loud reaffirms the feelings that we have inside. I think the Lord knew and understands the human need for verbal confirmation; it simply is not enough to gesture or say only once that we are thankful or love someone but that the act is repeated for us to be reminded of those earlier times and hint towards future progression. Like in the scriptures or in teaching young children we often receive the same message, teaching repeatedly, not that we don’t know but for our betterment, and remembrance. Likewise show those around you, tell your siblings even, that you love them and often.