We discussed roles. I felt that within my family I have grown to acknowledge and love the power and blessing of having a worthy priesthood holding father, who through his example, I realize there is nothing I want more than to have a companion who would respect me and raise my family in likewise righteous authority as my father has shown to my mother and us kids. And as a mother and companion, I too can likewise be as awesome as my mom. I am not saying my family follows perfectly with the ideal look of a family, we still argue, get frustrated and pick on one another but fundamentally we know there is love in our home and have grown with the comfort of having the spirit dwell there. Now that all of us seven siblings are grown, I being the youngest, desire to keep that same spirit with us wherever we go and in the homes we build.